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You Were Made to Be Successful. Stop Settling – Part One

Gary Keesee • Feb 07, 2017

You were made for success.

Think about it.

When you were a child, what were your dreams for your life and your future? SUCCESS.

What dreams have you had since?

What are you doing about them?

Stick with me here. We’re going somewhere awesome.

Wherever you are right now in life, you need to take a few minutes to remember those dreams. Because as little kids we all played at victory. We didn’t play divorce court or bankruptcy court or dead-end jobs. We played the superhero, the president, or whoever we looked up to.

We played at winning. We played at success.

You know why? Because God didn’t just make us for success, He marked us for it.

You were created to win.

But if you ask most people what they’re doing about making their dreams a reality, they’ll probably answer, “Nothing.” Because when they take steps toward pursuing their God-given dreams, they hear a little voice inside saying things like, You could never do that , You don’t deserve that , Look at all the mistakes you’ve made , or You’re too (fill in the blank) to ever do that.

Is that you?

I get it.

I was a very shy kid growing up. Painfully shy. I didn’t say much. In fact, I pretty much did whatever I could to avoid talking and to avoid people. Yes, I’m a pastor and I used to avoid people. I admit it.

I remember talking in the hall with one of my friends in high school when one of my teachers walked by us. She stopped and said, “So, you CAN talk?”

I played football in junior high and high school, and my sisters were cheerleaders. When my mother would have parties after the games, I would hide out in my room.

Not only did I go through high school barely speaking to people, I also had really poor grades. I graduated with a 1.3 grade point average. There was only one other guy who had a lower GPA than I did. I was definitely not voted most likely to succeed.

God had to fix me. He had a specific purpose for my life—He had marked me for success— and He wanted to help me get there. I didn’t know it then, but when I was 19 years old, God called me in a vision to preach… to people. So I had to change.

So, God told me to go to college. Then, He put me in life insurance sales. That’s a fantastic job for someone who is afraid to talk to people, right? I died a thousand deaths every week when I sold insurance. I would lie in bed at night shaking in fear.

And that, right there, is where many Christians get messed up.

We step out into things, and then life gets tough, and we think we’ve missed God. We have this weird idea that if we have fear or we face any problems or difficulties then whatever we had set out to do must not have been from God.

But that’s a lie from the enemy to get you to lose your confidence so you quit, or settle, and forget that God already marked you for success.

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Watch for Part Two next week!

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