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You Have Never Had More Opportunities to Be Offended
Gary Keesee • May 8, 2020
Offense – a breach of a law or rule; an illegal act; a thing that constitutes a violation of what is judged to be right or natural; an affront; a slap in the face; annoyance or resentment brought about by a perceived insult to or disregard for oneself or one's standards or principles.
Offended – upset, resentful, or annoyed, typically as a result of a perceived insult.
You have never had more opportunities to be offended than right now.
No, not by this blog ... by all of the things happening in our world right now.
And it just seems to get worse each day.
You name it, and someone is offended by it.
And it doesn’t stop there.
And Christians are just as guilty as non-Christians. (Yes, I actually typed that.)
Here’s the thing friend: WE ARE SUPPOSED TO BE DIFFERENT.
First Peter 2:9-23 tells us exactly what we should be doing right now:
But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light. Once you were not a people, but now you are the people of God; once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy.
Dear friends, I urge you, as foreigners and exiles, to abstain from sinful desires, which wage war against your soul. Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God
on the day he visits us.
Submit yourselves for the Lord’s sake to every human authority: whether to the emperor, as the supreme authority, or to governors, who are sent by him to punish those who do wrong and to commend those who do right. For it is God’s will that by doing good you should silence the ignorant talk of foolish people.
Live as free people, but do not use your freedom as a cover-up for evil; live as God’s servants. Show proper respect to everyone, love the family of believers, fear God, honor the emperor.
Servants, in reverent fear of God submit yourselves to your masters, not only to those who are good and considerate, but also to those who are harsh. For it is commendable if someone bears up under the pain of unjust suffering because they are conscious of God. But how is it to your credit if you receive a beating for doing wrong and endure it? But if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable before God. To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps.
“He committed no sin, and no deceit was found in his mouth.”
When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly.
So, what’s your purpose as a believer?
TO BE A WITNESS OF HIM IN THE EARTH REALM—
TO DECLARE HIS GOODNESS AND HIS RIGHTEOUSNESS.
How are you doing with that?
Are you too busy venting your frustrations, annoyances, and offenses for anyone to see God in your life?
You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.
— Matthew 5:14-16
What does it mean to be the light of the world?
Being the light of the world means that there are deeds
that match up.
Philippians 2:14a tells us we should “Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe.”
You don’t have to purpose to see the stars in the dark night sky. And you don’t have to work to convince other people that the stars are there. Religion is like that—always striving to prove to people that the stars exist, instead of just showing them the light.
People don’t need convincing; they just need to see the light in your life.
People need to see the proof of God in your life.
The demonstration of the Kingdom of God speaks FOR us. In John 10, Jesus told the disciples that even if they didn’t believe Him, they should believe the miracles—the deeds.
Acts 8:6 tells us that multitudes of people paid close attention to what Phillip had to say because they heard
and saw
the miracles he performed in Jesus’s name.
That’s the light people are looking for.
They want to be an eyewitness to the glory of God.
They want to know
how you’re not living in fear...
how you’ve been healed...
how you’re keeping your peace when everything feels chaotic...
how your marriage is staying together...
how your family actually likes
one another...
how your business is still successful.
THOSE ARE THE THINGS YOU SHOULD BE TALKING ABOUT ON SOCIAL MEDIA.
People are watching.
My own dad was one of those people.
See, growing up, I couldn’t talk about the Bible, or church, or God. My dad wouldn’t listen. He was one of the most cynical people ever.
It was so bad that I had a terribly hard time believing that my dad could ever come to know the Lord personally. I would pray that he’d receive from someone, anyone, because he just wouldn’t hear it from me.
But one day, without my knowledge, he started watching our television show, and listening to the stories of lives changed by God and His Kingdom principles.
Then, he came to our church.
And, after years of thinking it was hopeless, my dad gave his life to Christ at the age of 80.
I walked up behind him one day at church as someone asked him what had changed and he answered, “I’ve just seen too many things…”
Friend, you’re the only credibility God has with the unbelievers you encounter.
Are you attaching Jesus’s name to good things?
The enemy is looking for an open door in all of our lives.
Harboring offenses is THE NUMBER ONE way he enters lives.
First Peter 3:9 says, “Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.”
But that chapter goes on to say,
For, whoever would love life and see good days must keep their tongue from evil and their lips from deceitful speech. They must turn from evil and do good; they must seek peace and pursue it.
For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous and his ears are attentive to their prayer, but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil.
Friend, don’t take things into your own hands.
Seek peace and pursue it.
Don’t let people or their actions get you so stirred up that you step out of the love walk and begin to judge people and criticize people and gossip about people and vent about people. Don’t step out from under the authority of God.
Be an example. Be the light.
To this
you were called.
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To fight the pain, I took two Tylenol every four hours for several days in a row. One night, I was up trying to cope with the pain when I decided to read the Tylenol box for some reason. You can probably guess what happened. I read on the box that you’re not supposed to take Tylenol as frequently as I had been taking it. And that’s when fear really set in. OH NO, GARY! YOU’VE TAKEN TOO MUCH! I called Poison Control and told them I had taken two tablets of Tylenol too many for the last three days. The girl on the other end of the line said, “We have never had someone live that took that dosage. Either you drive yourself to the hospital, or I’m sending an ambulance after you right now.” No, I’m not kidding. She actually said that, and I actually believed her. So there I was in complete fear and panic, and I drove myself to the hospital. When I got to the emergency room, two guys were pacing back and forth out front, waiting for me. When I walked in, my name was already on the dry-erase board. It said, “Keesee—overdose.” Obviously, I didn’t overdose. In fact, a doctor came in after they ran a bunch of tests and asked me why I was even there. He said, “You don’t even have enough Tylenol in your system to cure a headache.” Yes, it’s funny now, but it sure wasn’t in the moment. My issue, however, was way bigger than a Tylenol scare. I was desperately trying to survive financially, emotionally, and even physically. I couldn’t seem to find peace, no matter how hard I tried. I know I’m not the only one who has been there. People are always looking for peace. There’s the mom whose kids keep fighting, the businessman with an unstable career, the young woman on antidepressants, the teenage boy on drugs, the couple that can’t ever agree on their finances, the grandmother who can’t sleep at night because she’s worrying about her family—they’re all hungry for peace. The world is hungry for peace. People will spend a lot of money and time searching for peace. We buy things, try to find moments, or strive to achieve something because we believe those things, moments, or achievements will bring peace. But peace can’t be found in any thing, place, or achievement. The word “peace” in Hebrew is “shalom,” which means wholeness, completeness, harmony, prosperity, welfare, security, and tranquility . Nothing is missing, and nothing is broken. It’s freedom from the distress experienced as a result of sin. Peace covers all of that. Jesus came to give us true peace. In John 14:27, Jesus tells the disciples that He’s leaving, but He’s leaving His peace with them. “Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.” —John 14:27 (KJV) Can you imagine what the disciples were thinking and saying? He can’t leave! He calmed the storm when we were on the boat! But He always knows how to calm our fears! He helped us understand priorities and what life was about! Every time we were afraid, He gave us courage! He healed so many and raised them from the dead! We can’t be confident without Him around! Do you remember when He told us how to pay our taxes? What are we going to do?!? You and I probably would have reacted the same way. After all, if you had one person to go to who had all the answers for every situation, who could calm your fears, and who could calm the storms in your life with just one word, how do you think you’d react if they said they were leaving you? Jesus said, “Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid” because the disciples WERE troubled and afraid. Jesus was their peace. They didn’t know how to function without Him, or at least they thought they didn’t. But Jesus was trying to tell them He was leaving them a great gift. Yes, He was the Prince of Peace, but He had peace because of what He had on the inside—the Holy Spirit. And He told them, “My peace (Holy Spirit) I give to you.” The Holy Spirit is the One who counseled Jesus. Jesus walked by the power and peace of the Holy Spirit. Acts 10:38 tells us that Jesus was anointed by God. Jesus was one with the Father and could hear His voice. And He passed that on to YOU and ME . In John 14:26, Jesus says: “But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you.” —John 14:26 (KJV) See that? God is the God of Peace because He’s the God of answers . He has given us the Holy Spirit, who knows exactly how to handle every situation. The Bible calls Him a “Comforter.” To comfort doesn’t mean to console, hug, and show your love for someone. What comforts you when you’re sick? Healing . What comforts you when you need money? Money . What comforts you when you need answers? Answers . Friend, the search for peace is over. You will keep in perfect and constant peace the one whose mind is steadfast [that is, committed and focused on You—in both inclination and character], because he trusts and takes refuge in You [with hope and confident expectation]. —Isaiah 26:3 (AMP) You DO have someone to go to who has every answer for every situation in your life . One who will calm your fears and the storms in your life and One who says He will never leave or forsake you.
As an author, speaker, television host, and successful entrepreneur for more than 27 years, Gary Keesee has helped thousands of families and individuals realize their God-given potential.
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