Your Stay-at-Home Survival Guide
Drenda Keesee • April 3, 2020
With most of us on some sort of stay-at-home order, or being forced to homeschool your kids, or fill the hours with things to do, odds are you're looking for ideas to keep stay-at-home life from feeling like stuck-at-home-forever life.
In an ideal world, extra family time sounds great. But practicing social distancing with your family for an indefinite time period can seem daunting. And what happens when everyone goes stir crazy and there's nowhere for you to go?
Just because you have to stay home doesn’t mean you can’t have a great time.
Here are some tips and ideas for how to make the most of your time while you’re staying at home!
Remember, be mindful.
Nobody wants to live in isolation. Be mindful of how your children are processing this. It’s important for them to be aware that something is happening and that's why they must change their routine. But it’s also important for parents not to place their stress and concern on their children.
1. Come up with a post-quarantine bucket list.
Make a post-quarantine bucket list with all the things you wish you could be doing right now!
Many of us are wishing for the simple things right now, like going out to eat together, going to the movies, shopping at the mall, watching March Madness, preseason baseball, or going to a park.
Every time you or someone in your family wishes they were doing something that you can't do right now, put it on your bucket list for a future family day. Once the stay-at-home order is over, work through the list, and be grateful for the simple things most of us used to take for granted.
2. Have a game night.
Break out the puzzles and board games! With all of the technology available today, it can be tempting to just let our kids play XBox or binge watch Netflix or Disney+ all day. Even though you may all be in the same house, it's still important to interact. Play some games, even if it’s just a few times a week. Plan times to set aside all of the devices, turn off the news, and spend time together.
Movie nights are also a fun idea. There are so many ways to digitally access movies from your home. Many streaming services even offer a free trial period. Find a movie to watch as a family, or a TV show to watch a few episodes of together each week. Having something to watch as a family will be a lot more enjoyable than each person watching their shows individually.
3. Maintain some kind of structure, including time to get energy out.
It can be really tempting to just stay in pajamas all day, not set your alarm clock, and let everyone just do whatever they want. One day or an occasional day like that is fun, but you should try to keep your kids on as close to a normal schedule as possible for the most part.
Don’t get stuck in the habit of sleeping in, staying up late, snacking all day, and not doing any physical activity. Go on a walk and get some fresh air. It’s okay to bend the rules some, but acting like it’s eternal spring break will cause you to feel sluggish and create habits that will be hard to break when this has all passed.
Have everyone wake up at a consistent time, eat meals on your normal schedule, complete their schoolwork before playtime, or with scheduled breaks, and plan for recess. Let your kids play outside to get their energy out!
4. Tap into resources online, then take them offline.
Homeschooling can be challenging when you're not forced to do it, let alone being mandated to educate your child. Cut yourself some slack. Be sure to look for resources online to help you, as well as what the schools are providing.
When possible, look for ideas to have your kids get creative or learn a new skill offline. It’s much easier said than done, but it is possible to encourage learning offline. Try teaching your kids how to cook a meal, how to garden, even a chore that needs done!
5. Take time for yourself.
This is important. You need this time to prevent burnout. Go for a walk, wake up early to have some quiet time, or take some time to yourself when your kids are having screen time. Take a nice bath, spend time in prayer, do a project on your own, or get some things done that you need to do.
It’s important to take care of yourself during this time so that you can take care of your family as well.
6. Do a family Bible study.
This one is simple, but it’s probably one of the most important stay-at-home survival tips there is!
Church is now online, so watch as a family and spend some time discussing it!
If you have young kids, we have free children’s programming available at faithlifenowTV.com. Watch some programs together or pick a book of the Bible to read and discuss. There are also lots of online resources available on how to do a Bible study with kids. Get creative!
7. Practice gratitude.
You may be feeling overwhelmed with everything that's been going on and life being turned upside down, but I want to encourage you to practice gratitude during this time. See the extra time you have with your family as a blessing. Think about the people who have to stay-at-home alone during this season and how (most) of them would give anything to have other people with them.
Take advantage of the family time. Go on a hike, watch some movies, just be together. Use this time to learn a new skill, start a new task, or go further in your walk with God—this time will pass, and life will get back to normal!
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Reading Time 2 mins 59 secs – Health isn’t just about how long you live; it’s about how well you live the life God’s called you to. You were created with a purpose, and your body is the vessel that carries that purpose forward. When your body is weary, your mind drifts, and your spirit feels disconnected, it becomes harder to walk in everything God has assigned to you. That’s why good health isn’t optional in the Kingdom. It’s stewardship. God Cares About How You Feel All through Scripture, God shows concern for His people’s well-being, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Jesus healed bodies, calmed minds, and restored people to community. Health in His Kingdom is wholeness, not just healing. It’s walking in peace instead of pressure, strength instead of survival. When you take care of your health, you’re not just maintaining your body; you’re honoring your Creator. Every time you rest when you need it, fuel your body with good food, or take a walk instead of worrying, you’re saying, “Lord, I trust you to sustain me.” Health Is a Faith Decision Faith and health are connected. When you believe God for provision, you also believe Him for energy, renewal, and longevity. Your health journey isn’t about control; it’s about alignment with the Holy Spirit. Romans 12:1 tells us to offer our bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God. That’s not a verse about restriction; it’s about devotion. Your body is a place where the Holy Spirit dwells, and how you care for it reflects your faith. Ask yourself: Am I fueling my body for the calling I’ve been given? Do my daily choices create strength or drain it? What does obedience look like in this area of my life right now? Small acts of obedience like drinking more water, sleeping enough, managing stress, and choosing gratitude are seeds of faith that produce lasting fruit. The Rhythms of Renewal God designed life in rhythms: day and night, work and rest, sowing and reaping. When you move with His rhythm, you live from rest instead of running on empty. Here are a few rhythms that restore strength: Rest intentionally. True rest is more than sleep; it’s trust. It’s the decision to stop striving and let God restore what effort cannot. Eat with awareness. Food was meant to nourish you, not control you. Choose what fuels your body for purpose rather than what comforts it in pressure. Move with joy. Exercise isn’t punishment, it’s a partnership. Every step, stretch, or breath can be an act of worship when done in gratitude. Renew your mind. A healthy body begins with healthy thoughts. Replace “I’m so tired” with “God strengthens me daily.” What you repeat, you begin to believe. When You Feel Stuck There will be days when progress feels invisible. Maybe you’re waiting for healing or battling habits that feel impossible to break. Don’t quit. God doesn’t measure health by perfection. Philippians 1:6 reminds us that He who began a good work in you will carry it to completion. As you continue showing up with faith, the results will follow. A Simple Prayer Father, thank you for giving me this body as a gift, not a burden. Teach me to care for it with wisdom and gratitude. Strengthen me to make choices that bring you glory. Renew my energy, restore my joy, and remind me that you are the source of my strength. In Jesus’s name, I pray. Amen. Remember This Health isn’t about chasing balance; it’s about choosing alignment. When your spirit leads, your soul settles, and your body follows. Walk with God, and you’ll find strength that doesn’t fade, energy that renews daily, and peace that carries you farther than willpower ever could.
Reading Time 3 mins 42 secs – When most people hear the word success, they picture a number in a bank account, a title on a door, or applause from a crowd. Those things aren’t wrong, but they’re not the whole story. Kingdom success is the fruit of living aligned with God’s presence, God’s purpose, and God’s principles. It’s success that sticks in your family, your finances, your calling, and your soul. What God Calls “Success” The Bible defines success as prospering in what God has assigned you to do. Joshua was told to keep God’s Word front and center. You shall meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful. —Joshua 1:8b (NIV) Success begins with alignment, not achievement. When your ways line up with His ways, outcomes change. Success Grows Where Purpose Lives You weren’t designed to drift; you were designed to steward. Deuteronomy 8:18 says God gives you the power to create wealth—not so you can worship wealth but so you can build, bless, and advance His Kingdom. Purpose answers why you’re pursuing something. When your why is right, God can trust you with more. Ask yourself: What problem has God wired me to solve? Who gets helped when I win? How does this goal move God’s purpose forward? Three Pillars of Kingdom Success Presence – Success starts by seeking God first (Matthew 6:33). In His presence, you get clarity, courage, and correction. Purpose – Your assignment sets the target. Aimless motion is not momentum. Practice – Faith works when you work the principles. Plan, sow, and act; God multiplies. Principles That Produce God’s system isn’t random. There’s a time to plant seeds and a time to harvest. If you plant the right seeds consistently, a harvest is inevitable. In Proverbs 16:3, we’re reminded to commit whatever we do to the Lord, and He will establish our plans. Think like a steward and ask, “What have I been given?”(such as time, gifts, relationships, and ideas). Manage them with excellence. Choose excellence daily and do your work heartily as for the Lord, because excellence attracts opportunity. Prioritize wisdom by reading, learning, and surrounding yourself with people who sharpen you. Guard your words; there’s power in the words you speak, so take time to intentionally speak truth. Speak words that are in line with God’s promise rather than with fear. In Luke 16:10, we’re reminded to take faith steps, because small obedient steps multiply, and the servant that is faithful with little can be trusted with much. Break the Success Killers Break the success killers by refusing comparison, which steals both joy and peace. Instead, stay focused on running your own race and celebrating progress over perfection. Avoid hurrying, because quick fixes create fragile results, while patience and process create durable success. Replace excuses like “I can’t” with the empowering mindset of “How can I, with God’s help?” Finally, reject isolation, because lone wolf living limits growth, while community, mentors, and partners in purpose accelerate you. When you consistently choose these healthier patterns, you build the resilience and clarity needed to sustain long-term success. A Weekly Success Rhythm Seek (Daily): 10–15 minutes in the Word and prayer to align your heart and hear strategy. Plan (Weekly): Review your goals and priorities to ensure alignment. Decide your top three Kingdom outcomes for the week. Sow (Consistently): Give, serve, and invest in your skills. Measure (Weekly): What moved forward? What needs adjusting? Celebrate progress, then iterate. Rest (Sabbath): Rest is not wasted time; it’s faith in action . When Progress Feels Slow Psalm 1 paints a picture: a person planted by streams, bearing fruit in season . Not every day looks like a harvest day. Some days are root days. Stay planted. Keep sowing. Harvests have a schedule, and God is never late. A Simple Prayer Father, thank You for calling me to succeed Your way. Align my heart with Your presence, clarify my purpose, and teach me to practice Your principles with diligence and joy. I commit my plans to You. Give me wisdom, clarity, and strength to steward what You’ve placed in my hands. Use my success to bless others and advance Your Kingdom. In Jesus’s name, I pray. Amen. Carry This with You Success in the Kingdom isn’t a finish line; it’s a faithful life . Start where you are. Work with what you have. Obey what God says. Expect His favor. As you align with His presence, purpose, and principles, you’ll see results that last, results that outlive you, and point people to Him.